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Tracey's Blood Clot - Update 2 - End of Day 3
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From: "Drew and Tracey Cope"
Sent: Late Friday, January 06, 2007
Subject: Please Pray for Tracey - update #2 - Friday PM
TRACEY UPDATE - END OF DAY on FRIDAY
Please continue to keep Tracey in
your thoughts and prayers. For those of you recently added to this list, we
want you to know that Tracey and I try to live our lives like an open book.
Those of you familiar with Drew's Daily Life Updates from my college days will
understand that more fully than others. And that philosophy of ministry can
also be found on to www.DrewandTracey.com/Wedding/
where you can look at what we had read during the ceremony, and go through the
story of how we met and all that fun stuff.
We've had so many genuine,
sincere offers of "whatever you guys need, just let us know." so much so that
i'm loosing track, so you might see me doing more things via email than phone so
I have a way of keeping track of things. You have no idea what a blessing you
all are just by praying for us. Thank you guys so much. You can't begin to
imagin what it means, but we tear up as we read your replies and your prayers
for us. This is just one more example of the amazing things that God does when
each member of the body is in the trenches, doing their part, and being open to
his Spirit's guiding.
This email has five parts. If you're not in the
immediate family, feel free to pick and chose what you read. That's why we
have section titles and dividers. 1> Business end gifts, cards, visits,
phone calls 2> subscribe, unsubscribe, update archive, why the strange
email address, what to tell the prayer list folks. 3> Layman's update for
today 4> a few extra technicals and numbers for those who understand what
it means 5> Excerpts from instant messenger conversations we had to day,
and how we responded to questions "our kids" asked
us.
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BUSINESS END - GIFTS, CARDS, VISITS, PHONE CALLS Don't worry about cards or
flowers... Cards cost $3 a piece at some places (which is silly - adopt a
compassion kid instead) and then we either keep them in a box somewhere forever
(probably never to be looked at again which is even sillier) or recycle them,
and with her allergies, sometimes the flowers just aggravate stuff anyway.
come-on now... you know you do the same thing with all the birthday and
Christmas cards you get. Am I right ? :-D
THE BEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE...
right now is a reply back via email that includes your thoughts and prayers, but
most importantly something uplifting and funny to make her smile. We got an
elf gram today, and a cute baby photo along with some very touching and
encouraging emails. But the Elf gram won top honors. Grab your digital
camera... go take a really silly looking photo of yourself, maybe holding a
piece of notebook paper with a silly caption on it, or something... get
creative... as those types of emails really seem to brighten her day. These
emails should be sent to Drew@DrewandTracey.com so that we can
just go to one place to check them. I explain the email dilemma in business
part 2. GZ and Crossfire kids - I hope you'll lead the pack in these
endeavors. Even if you just google a free online greeting card company.
Note that you might not get a personal response, but you making Tracey smile
means the world to us right now. (that makes it sound like she's really
depressed or something... she's not... but I do want her to have plenty of
opportunities to laugh throughout the day).
We had a few visitors
today, and that went pretty smooth. Now we're in a different room, on a
different floor, with different nurses, but I don't anticipate an issue. We
can have people 2 at a time in the room, from 10a-8p. Tracey seemed to do well
with people here, so assuming she's having a good day tomorrow, I hope that will
continue. I don't want to overwhelm her, and I also don't want you stuck
waiting if they send us to some far corner of the hospital for an extra test.
So PLEASE CALL MY CELL before you come to make sure that timing is good and
everything. If you want to schedule with me for later in the day, or Sunday, or
Monday, email me back so I can try to spread her visitors out throughout the
day.
Tracey's cell phone is being used for our internet connection.
I'm fielding all calls on my cell phone. We're not using the hospital room
phone because the ringer is loud and might wake her if she's sleeping. Her
phone has an message saying don't leave a message and to call my phone instead
and gives my number. If you have my number, just call me if you need us.
Family, if you need intra day updates, call my cell or email and I'll bring you
up to speed as I'm able. If you don't already have my cell number, then
contact us via
email.
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BUSINESS END - SUBSCRIBE, UNSUBSCRIBE, UPDATE ARCHIVE, ETC If you didn't get
this directly from us, don't be offended. It's just late and I'm tired. Just
email me with
"SUBSCRIBE Tracey Updates" in the subject line, and I'll add you to the list.
I can take people off the list too, if you don't want the updates. Trust me, We
won't be offended. It's fine. Any and all emails about Tracey should go to
this address, regardless of how I know you.
-- For now, I'm doing updates VIA email...
I won't have time to put anything on DrewandTracey.com till she gets outta the
hospital, so just check your email.
-- If you add her to any prayer
lists, please skip the details and just ask them to pray for "for healing for
her, peace for us & our families in distant places, wisdom for the doctors,
but most importantly for good communication between the doctors, the nursing
staff, and us." We'll keep it generic on the prayer lists... I started trying
to count how many people she had praying for her, but it quickly got out of
hand. As Joyce remarked in an email to church staff yesterday, the circle of
influence, as represented by my distribution instructions at the top of
yesterday's update, speaks volumes to what God is doing. Thank you for your
prayers.
-------------------------------------------- 3> LAYMAN'S
UPDATE FOR TODAY
I use more and more notebook paper each day.
Occasionally I miss something, but we're doing pretty good at journaling
stuff. I crashed at Colesbery (my parent's house in New Castle, DE just 10
minutes from the hospital. ) She was woken up at midnight for Blood pressure and
again at 4am. At 5 she called me. I was in by 5:40, spoke to the nurses at
shift change. Her breakfast of skim milk, raisin bran, and a hard boiled egg
was okay. She's not a fan of the skim milk, but it was the lesser of two evils
when compared to whole milk, and she didn't trust the other menu items
offered. Every other time she got up for the bathroom, she coughed some.
Twice she came up with dime sized flem. The second time, it had a splatter of
blood in the center.
We met with her doctor at 10:50. He answered
many questions that we'd written down over the previous 24 hours of darkness
where we didn't know everything we wanted to know. He was patient and worked
with us through my version of 'the inquisition.' He said the pharmacy often
randomly substitutes drugs people are on or prescribed, for other drugs with
similar purposes when they don't have what they need (and I wonder if one is
cheaper). Thursday AM, they came in with Clariton instead of Alegra, and
FlowNase instead of Nasonex. I explained that she'd worked with her PCP
(primary doc) and her alergist to get her meds working correctly, and that
Clariton didn't work for her, and that Alegra D didn't work for her, that only
Alegra would do, so he changed the orders to allow her to take her own meds
which she had. Victory #1. The flem concerns led him to order a Cat Scan...
and then at noon, we got a call to find out what she'd been eating and drinking,
and were then ordered to cease all food and drink until 4pm so they could do the
Cat Scan. (which means she is 4 hours low on fluid at the end of the day and
probalby why she is exhasted tonight, but i'm getting ahead of myself.) He
also left us with the impression this morning that we could "Take off the Kid
Gloves" and she was okay to walk to the door if she wanted (She doesn't want
too), but that told me that getting up for the bathroom was less dangerous than
I originally thought it might be.
Somewhere in here, her first two
visitors showed up and spend some time with us and allowed us to process outloud
a little of what we'd learned from the doctor. The floor chaplin also stopped
in for a visit and to pray. (As time goes on, i'm bumping into more an more
spirit filled folks down here, as opposed to the
stuck-in-the-rut-denominationals which is really nice.) 12:20PM she fell
aslseep exhausted.. an Hour later, she was back up and had energy again and was
more helpful when she had to sit up, or get outta bed, and stuff. 2:30pm they
came and asked her the routine questions they do before give you a CAT. 4:50 we
met with the Hemotologist who basically told us nothing. He would order blood
work... and then since he's not in on the weekend, we could catch him at his
office next week to go over the results... so he might tell us what caused all
this after the fact... but it doesn't sound like he'll be actively involved in
the process of getting her back to normal in the short term. And I drilled him
with a few questions too. As soon as we were done, she was on a gurney down to
the scan area. They didn't let me go in with her, but it turns out they needed
to put an IV in the middle of her other arm so that they could inject the dye.
While she was in there, I went out to the lobby and met with a few youth group
teens who came down for a visit and brought us some stuff from the house. I was
back before she was done... and I'm told that even before she was off the table,
phone calls were being made at a frantic pace. (Don't worry - nothing bad
happens... but a long lead up is involved... don't you wish all books gave away
the ending like this ?)
Ernie was upstairs waiting for us because he
didn't get the message about the Cat Scan, but that ment he was at the nurses
station when the phone started ringing and got me some of the inside scoop early
on. I didn't yet know anything was wrong until we got back upstairs. Tracey
said something that perked my interest. The tech said non-chilantly that the
doctor had already been called. I grabbed our friends from the lobby and we all
headed upstairs. Passing the nurse's station was my first indication of
trouble and they told us we were "Changing rooms, going to a more acute floor
and putting her back on a heart monitor. Then Ernie gave me a few extra
tibits. When we got back, tracey's roomie was gone. Sad we couldn't say
goodbye, but so it was easier for us to have 8 guests in the room. I started to
draw my own obvious conclusions and dropped into "lets fix it" mode as I
describe later in the Instant Message Question Response section below, and
started ease dropping, packing, making sure tracey got dinner since she'd been
without food since breakfast, and then allowed our guest to take care of her
while I got us ready to move, and tried to learn things I wasn't supposed to
know yet.
Lots of drama... a doctor comes flying around a corner on a
"STAT" order (get here now). and has a 10 word conversation with the nurses and
then rebukes them for making it sound so urgent when it really wasn't... we
didn't understand why is wasn't so fully urgent until he came and talked to us
later and then we trapped him with an extra 10 minutes of quiestions, but I'll
get to that. However, the nurses still wouldn't fill me in. So I waited till
we got tracey loaded, and our guests following her down, and then I pulled the
nurse and explained that Tracey's family lived 6 hours away and that I needed a
point blank answer without any details of whether or not they needed to start
the 6,7,8,9 hour drive down... and she said No and then dropped some hints and
let me peice it together. "Blood thiner is designed to break up a clot, and
occationall peices can begin to travel." and since I knew they only scanned her
chest, i can reasonable guess where they traveled to. But the Doctor didn't
seem too concerned. His comments were to the effect of "We'll, she's already
on Heprin, which is the treatment for this, so we're already doing what we're
supposed to be doing, and we were doing it before we knew about this concern, so
it's not a big deal, so you shouldn't have paged me STAT, and don't ever do that
again. The first group of friends had already said goodbye at this point and
the 2nd group was following Tracey to the 2nd floor.
So I caught up with
the group, and tried to help tracey transfer into her knew bed and the nurses
gave me attitude that they had it under control, so when they left, I again
reminded tracey to be very vocal about wanting my help and my presence when they
are doing stuff because essentially, we're starting from scratch again, and we
have to train a whole new group of nurses how to deal with us. It took a while
to get settled, give the new nurse the full history, family background, events
leading up to this last week, etc. Once that was done, our 2nd group of
friends came in to say goodbye. It took us about 30 minutes to get settled,
get the supplies and things we needed for the new room, things it was missing
etc, and start to slow down. More on unpacking is below in the AIM
converstaions.
The Crazy doctor came in and hoped to breif us and
leave, but we nailed him with questions about treatment options, length of
treatment overall, what the cat scan commotion was all about etc. He got stuck
in our room about 10 minutes longer than he wanted to be but thats just tough
for him. THE CAT SCAN REVEALED... that tracey has a Pulmonary Embolism (PE)
caracterized by a "Moderate Clot Load" in her lungs.
Normally, that would be bad, hence the chinese firedrill which took
place on her behalf. However, tracey "Tolerated" the episode well... meaning
none of her vitals have really changed much since we started this adventure.
She is breathing fine... Additionaly, she is already on the Heprin, which had
this been suddenly discoved in anyone else, would have been the first method for
treatment. And she's been on heprin for 3 days which means the peices should
continue to disolve and shouldn't have any real abilty to grow and that is why
he flipped out on the nurses upstairs. He talked us through several different
treatment teirs based on what happens... but right now, thinks we are in good
shape... that it dosn't hurt to be on a highly monitored floor given the family
history, and that he'd like to switch her from the IV to a twice a day injection
so that Tracey won't need to have as much blood drawn.
We called both
our parents, gave the updates, tracey meanwhile finished another cycle and is
now in an exhaused phase. We'll see what tomorrow holds. :-) The funny part
is that before all this happened, we were talking about the possibliy of Tracey
doing some tutoring from the hospital to help take her mind off stuff, and give
her something productive to do so she feels more useful, as she has some
students who have midterms in about 10 days but with tonight's event, I think we
are scrapping that concept. But it held such promise. Oh well. We'll find
another way to help keep her on track.
Pray foremost against those clots
in her lungs, and also for a smooth disolving of those in her leg, and complete
healing of the veins down there with no scaring. Pray for a good relationship
with the nurses on all three shifts on this floor & freedom for me to
continue to be tracey's primary source of assistance as needed. Pray for us
to receive frequent regular updates from her primary doctors in this. Pray
for her left elbow as it's taking a beating with all the blood draws for labs
and things. Praise God I didn't get dad's queezy stomach when it comes to
needles and IV's and
stuff.
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A FEW EXTRA TECHNICALS FOR THOSE WHO UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS
12:25 AM BP
128/74, temp 37.1 C 3:52 AM BP 127/81, temp 37.2 C 7:10 AM BP 97/55, temp
99.4 F 3:25 PM BP 135/77 temp 36.9 C 7:37 PM BP 129/65 temp 37.6
C 10:24 PM BP 106/58 temp 36.4 C, Pulse Ox 98 11:50 PM Pulse Ox
95
PTT has been at 77, 77, 77 and then 75, and this afternoon 85... So
we went from 16ml/hr heprin at 250 concentration down to 14 and we suspect
they'll adjust it again after tonight's labs come back. We need to discuss them
drawing blood from alternating places each day as her elbow is getting pretty
beat up. Tonight's nurse says we want the PTT around 60 to 80ish...
I did not get a
new INR number tonight... but we've been consistant at 1.2
Doc added
Musinex today to help get out flem after hearing about the blood there this
AM.
Dye was called OptiRay
Doc wants to do an EchoCardioGram on
her tomorrow after seeing CAT scan results
Tracey did fine with the weird
warming and cooling sensations that the CAT scan gives you. Thought it was
cool when they said "you're going to feel like you wet your pants" and they were
right, she did fell that way, but in reality everything was
fine.
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FROM INSTANT MESSENGER CONVERSATIONS TODAY Q> When you had the
"complication" tonight, why wouldn't they tell you anything?? A> Nurses
can't give out information like that... Only Doctors... The CatScan showed
something in her chest / lungs / heart, but no-one's allowed to tell us what
they saw. All we know is that they aren't panic'd so we shouldn't be, and they
moved her to another room on another floor where they have better monitoring
equipment, and they said the doctor who is allowed to tell us the information
won't be in till tomorrow morning. I guess they don't want a nurse to either
tell you wrong information, or tell you partial information which might lead you
to mis-conceptions of "we're okay" or worse, "oh no we're dying," and doctors
supposidly are "better trained" to be able to share that information with you
and making sure you don't freak out, flip out, jump off a bridge, etc. The
good news is the doctor was able to stop in tonight, and we were able to get
enough answers to put our mind at rest
Q> How hard was it to move
to a new room? A> Well, when Mom came in yesterday, I took advantage of
the chance to run home while she watched tracey, kept her company, and more
importantly had my questions ready in case the doctor stopped in. I picked up a
list of stuff that tracey wanted from the house. Then today, we received a few
packages from family members. Tonight, 8 teens and adults from GZ came down to
visit and one of the students agreed to stop by our house on the way down, and
pick up some extra things tracey wanted, like her bathrobe in case we got
adventurous and took her for a wheel chair tour of the floor she was on, just to
get her outta the room. So we had a lot of stuff including her books,
Crow-shay-ing stuff, MP3 player, laptop, etc... So our visitors helped me pack
stuff up in the midst of the commotion and feverish activity at the nurse's
station and when Tracey's transport gurney arrived, we loaded everything up and
took it down stairs. I hung back to try to weezel any futher details outta the
nurse, and then caught up with everyone. Once we got downstairs, it took a
good 20 minutes to bring the new nursing staff up to speed on the entire history
of this event, as well as tracey's extensive medical history with asthma and
alergies, drugs that caused her side effects (technical alergies in my opinion),
and things she was actually alergic too. Once all that was done, our friends
game in to say goodbye, and then it took another few minutes to locate a bedside
commode for the room, get her a few cups of water and ice, and track down a few
other nesseities. Once the dust settled, and tracey was resting back in bed, I
rearranged the furnature in the room, setup the gifts she'd gotten in what
display space was available (this is a smaller room), put her books, clothes and
entertainment away, hung her sleep mask, bandana, and headphones on the tv over
her bed, and then setup the office so we could get on AIM and email. This
unpacking, organizing and decorating was probably the hardest part of the
move. Now she's in, and back in her routine, but I can tell it was a hard
evening for her. The nurse asked me to wake her up for a blood pressure test
and to listen to her lungs, and it took more work than ussual to wake her up.
She is now in an "Exhausted" rotation. Her last exhaused cycle was about 12:30
this afternoon and she bounced back real strong after her nap. Assuming she
gets good rest tonight and is able to get back to sleep after the 3 AM blood
work call, I think she'll be back to normal in the morning.
Q> Okay -
so how's Drew doing? A> The drama tonight took some extra energy and tired
me out a little, but now that we are moved in, and settled down, seated, with
the room decorated again, and "The Office" set up, and Tracey back into a
"routine" we are good. People like say that I keep an insain schedule, and
things in my day to day life... craming a lot of stuff in. Tracey and I work
hard, and play harder, and it's all done with excellence... but even that
schedule could be considered a light load as compared to the past few days. So
I'm good. God is sustaining me. I'm really hoping we don't get a roomie
tonight and I get to stay here in the room with her, as it will make things
slightly easier over the next 9 hours. It was good to see people. It's good
to IM with you and just share and process some of the day. Tracey said I moved
from an 8 up to the high 9's on the scale of "how good of a husband have I been
today" so that's an ego booster... and the nurses are glad to have a family that
is taking such an active role in Tracey's care and being an advocate for her.
Pastor Jeff reasured Tracey saying that he can tell that I'm very much on top of
things. And doing that takes work, but as weird as it sounds... I enjoy taking
care of her. At home, on any other day, i might procrasinate getting up to get
her a drink, or something else... but in this situation, God's making me into a
better husband and there is a joy that comes with that. And that joy wipes out
any aches, pains, or occational flashes of emotional mush that I might allow
myself to feel. It's hardest when the Emotional Mush starts to win and leak
out, as that makes everything else that I want to do, or need to do, that much
more difficult. When we had all the drama upstairs tonight, it was much easier
to switch into "let me take care of details" mode, especially with a few guests
here to keep Tracey entertained and distracted, then it was to process the
emotion of "the nurses seem to think something is wrong." I dealt with it by
sticking to the "what do we need to do next" plan while GZ folks hung out with
Tracey... I followed nurses and easedropped on phone calls... That was much
less taxing on emotional and spiritual reserves than processing the emotions of
the moment would have been. What does all that rambling mean? I don't know.
But God does... and he's in the middle of it... and He's been nice enough to let
me feel like and think that I have some control over the situation through note
taking, question asking and nurse bothering, but when I flop down in the chair
at the end of Tracey's most recent trip through her three hour "routine" of eat,
drink, blood test, blood pressure, tempature, sleep, and then start over... God
gently reminds me that it's still his ball game. He still owns the park, the
team, the coaches, the tickets, and the parking lot, and He's just letting me
throw out the ceremonial first pitch. So to answer your question... I'm good.
Tired, but good. and it's a good tired, not a bad - i'm gonna pass out -
tired. It's a good tired. A joyful
tired.
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Love
you guys. Know we value you! Especially if you actually read this whole
update. The detail is mostly to meet the needs of our immeidate family who
live far away. The rest of you just get to enjoy the benefit / suffer the
tourment of these long winded updates. And if you didn't get this directly
from us, don't be offended. It's just late and I'm tired. Just email me with
"SUBSCRIBE Tracey Updates" in the subject line, and I'll add you to the list.
I can take people off the list too, if you don't want the updates. Trust me, We
won't be offended. It's fine. I understand completely, especially seeing the
length, and depth of them.
TEENS - SEND US PHOTOS OF YOURSELF or Free
E-Cards THAT WILL MAKE US LAUGH :-) (Everyone else too :-) Visitors - call
me first to schedule
-------------------------- -- Drew &
Tracey -- -------------------------- 1Thes 2:6-12 We loved you so much
that we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our
lives as well, because you had become so dear to us.
-- Good things come
to those who wait -- Jacob served seven years for Rachel, but they seemed
like only a few days to him because of his love for her. - Gen 29:20
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